The reason you're trying to understand why they hate us, is to get them to quit hating us. The idea when you go through this moral exercise of really coming to appreciate their humanity and better understand them, is part of an effort to get them to appreciate your humanity in the long run.
Razlog zbog kojeg pokušavate razumjeti zašto nas mrze je da biste ih natjerali da nas prestanu mrziti. Kad prolazite moralnu vježbu da stvarno počnete cijeniti njihovu ljudskost i da ih bolje razumijete, dugoročno je ta ideja dio truda da ih natjerate da cijene vašu ljudskost.