They choose to set aside all the other things that they could be doing -- the children they could be raising and the jobs they could be going to, the other family members to pay attention to, the other friends they might want to hang out with.
Odabiru staviti postrani sve ostale stvari koje bi mogli raditi -- djecu koju bi mogli odgajati i poslove na koje bi mogli odlaziti, druge članove obitelji kojima bi mogli posvetiti pažnju, druge prijatelje s kojima se možda žele družiti.