And when I began to listen to the sexlessness of the couples that I work with, I sometimes would hear people say, "I want more sex," but generally, people want better sex, and better is to reconnect with that quality of aliveness, of vibrancy, of renewal, of vitality, of Eros, of energy that sex used to afford them, or that they've hoped it would afford them.
Kad su mi parovi s kojima sam radila govorili o nedostatku seksa ponekad bih čula ljude da kažu: "Želim više seksa", ali ljudi uglavnom žele bolji seks, a "bolje" znači ponovno se povezati s onom kvalitetom životnosti, živosti, obnove, živahnosti, erosa, energije koje im je seks nekad donosio, ili koje su se nadali da će im seks donijeti.