So don't search for one, don't wait for one, just accept the one you were offered or make up one yourself and then put the question to rest, because you need that closure to resist the addiction.
Nemojte ju tražiti, nemojte čekati da se pojavi, prihvatite ono koje ste dobili ili izmislite neko objašnjenje i završite sa svime time jer vam treba taj zaključak kako biste se oduprli ovisnosti.