And so with our overhelp, our overprotection and overdirection and hand-holding, we deprive our kids of the chance to build self-efficacy, which is a really fundamental tenet of the human psyche, far more important than that self-esteem they get every time we applaud.
I tako pretjeranim pomaganjem i zaštitom, upravljanjem i držanjem za ruku, ne dajemo djeci priliku da izgrade samoučinkovitost, temeljno načelo ljudske psihe, neusporedivo važnije od samopouzdanja koje dobiju svaki put kad im plješćemo.