You need to take the traumas and make them part of who you've come to be, and you need to fold the worst events of your life into a narrative of triumph, evincing a better self in response to things that hurt.
Morate uzeti traume i učiniti ih dijelom osobe koja postanete, i morate složiti najgore događaje  u svom životu u priču trijumfa, pokazujući boljeg sebe kao odgovor na stvari koje bole.