But how do you reconcile this idea of it being bad to think of someone as a "loser," with the idea that a lot of people like, of seizing control of your life, and that a society that encourages that, perhaps has to have some winners and losers?
Kako ste povezali tu ideju o nekome tko je --- da je loše o nekom misliti da je gubitnik, s idejom koju voli veliki broj ljudi o uzimanju kontrole nad svojim životom. I da društvo koje to potiče možda mora imati pobjednike i gubitnike.