Double standards for men and women, sex as a source of shame, family control limiting individual choices, and a vast gulf between appearance and reality: what people are doing and what they're willing to admit to, and a general reluctance to move  beyond private whispers to a serious and sustained public discussion.
Dvostruki standardi za muškarce i žene, seks kao izvor srama, obitelj kontrolira individualne izbore, i veliki jaz između vanjštine i realnosti: što ljudi rade i što su voljni priznati, i općenito opiranje da pomakne iznad privatnih šaputanja prema ozbiljnoj i javno podržanoj raspravi.