At the heart of an affair, you will often find a longing and a yearning for an emotional connection, for novelty, for freedom, for autonomy, for sexual intensity, a wish to recapture lost parts of ourselves or an attempt to bring back vitality in the face of loss and tragedy.
U korijenu prijevare često naiđemo na želju i čežnju  za emocionalnom povezanosti, za nečim novim, za slobodom,  autonomijom, seksualnim intenzitetom, za željom da ponovno  pronađemo izgubljeni dio nas ili pokušaj vraćanja živosti  usprkos gubitku i tragediji.