And even though we might help them achieve some short-term wins by overhelping -- like they get a better grade if we help them do their homework, they might end up with a longer childhood résumé when we help -- what I'm saying is that all of this comes at a long-term cost to their sense of self.
I premda im možemo pomoći da ostvare neke kratkoročne pobjede pretjeranim pomaganjem, poput boljih ocjena pomognemo li im sa zadaćom, možda će im biografija djetinjstva biti duža uz našu pomoć - želim reći da sve to dugoročno šteti njihovoj svijesti o sebi.