(Laughter) But no, in our mind up there are a host of things going on that we don't always know how to bring to the person that we love, because we think love comes with selflessness and in fact desire comes with a certain amount of selfishness in the best sense of the word: the ability to stay connected to one's self in the presence of another.
Ali ne, u našem umu događa se pregršt stvari za koje ni ne znamo kako da ih kažemo osobi koju volimo, jer mislimo da je ljubav nesebična, ali žudnja zapravo dolazi s određenom dozom sebičnosti, u najboljem smislu te riječi: sposobnost da ostanemo povezani sa svojom biti u prisustvu drugih ljudi.