And when you do, do it in a way that increases your chances that you'll get a yes and makes the other person feel awesome for having helped you, because you both deserve it.
A kada to činite, neka to bude na način koji povećava šanse da dobijete "da" kao odgovor, i koji čini da se osoba osjeća sjajno jer vam je pomogla, jer oboje to zaslužujete.